Workspace
Where we actually work...
The "workspace" is not a physical room – though we may meet in one.
It is the conceptual field in which change happens:
- the questions we ask,
- the patterns we map,
- the interventions we design,
- and the decisions you make from here forward.
Forward, not backward
I work prospectively, not retrospectively.
This means:
- We do not spend months reconstructing your biography.
- We do not dig through childhood trauma unless it is directly relevant to current patterns.
- We focus on: What can you do differently from now on?
The past has shaped you, but it cannot be changed.
The present and future can.
Rarely a perfect solution – always a perfect path
In complex dependency systems, there is rarely a single perfect solution that solves everything at once.
But there is always a next stepthat makes sense:
- clearer than the previous step,
- more aligned with your actual goals,
- more sustainable over time.
This is what I mean by the "perfect path":
- not flawless,
- not without setbacks,
- but consistently moving toward greater autonomy and functionality.
Partnership, not hierarchy
I do not position myself as:
- the teacher who knows better,
- the therapist who heals,
- or the guru who reveals hidden truths.
Instead, we work as partners:
- You bring your lived experience and willingness to change.
- I bring pattern recognition, systems thinking, and method.
Together, we map the territory and navigate it.
Success depends on both sides.
